
“Why does God take some home who still have so much to offer…
when there are so many others he leaves behind who could more easily be spared?”
I’m paraphrasing that quote from Ken Burns’ Baseball documentary. I believe that baseball commissioner Landis said it at the death of Christy Matthewson at age 45. The press called Matthewson “the Christian gentleman” because of his integrity at a time when the game was dominated by morally questionable men like Ruth, Cobb, gamblers, bootleggers, and even Landis himself.
I’ve thought about that quote a lot since Saturday evening when our MHCC friend A. L. Woody died of cancer at age 37, one day after his wedding anniversary, leaving behind a wife, Barbara, and twin daughters Casey and Sarah, age 10. Why would God take someone like A. L., who still had so much left to do when God knows there are others who could more easily be spared?!
The thing is, A. L. didn’t think like that. John Pryor, in his funeral talk yesterday, said: “His attitude was not ‘Why me?’ but ‘Why NOT me’? He firmly believed that he would remain alive as long as God wanted him to - and that God always knows best. In his struggle against cancer, A. L. remained unflinchingly brave and regularly encouraged those around him. He fought hard to live because he wanted as much time as possible with his family, but he never feared death or doubted his salvation.”
In the end, I have to admit that A. L. was right and I am wrong. It’s true that A. L. had to leave undone his work as a father (work that only he could do) while others (myself included) seem to have less pressing tasks. But the world hasn’t operated with fairness and equity since Eden, and it won’t again until God’s Kingdom fully comes. To choose faith over despair is to make a commitment to trust God when it doesn’t all add up and wait for the end of the story to be written.
Thanks, A. L., for doing that. Wish you were still here though.

2 responses so far ↓
1 Joanie // Sep 6, 2006 at 9:42 am
A Third Day song includes these words, “…and you feel like the days you had were not enough, when you said goodbye.” I’m so thankful to be surrounded with fellow believers. How could we live if we grieved like the world, without hope? Thanks for your thoughts, Dennis.
Joanie
2 djmatthews // Feb 13, 2008 at 11:43 am
I know this is an old post but still I thought I would share how I often go here because the black and white of what you wrote gives me hope. What you say about him is true and reminds me how I want his life to define mine. He made me a wife and a mom by being someone I trusted and admired. I would have never had the courage without him. I want to do this WITH him.
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